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How Will We Know When She Is Dead? someday...

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We stopped fighting over who got to hold the cat just long enough for Sander to snap this photo. I was 8, Judy was 7.

 

How Will We Know When She Is Dead? is my memoir of two sisters:  my sister Judy Gold, who began writing when she was diagnosed with breast cancer that against all odds went into remission for ten years, and my own writing later when her cancer returned. It's the story of our lives, our profound bond, and our survival. We grew up in the emotional hurricanes of the same crazy family, triumphed in adulthood, and finally reckoned with death.  read more...

 

 

 

 

I am a published author and a clinical psychologist specializing in divorce-related issues. My book, The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting, was published by Simon & Schuster in September 2020. I write regularly for Psychology Today and am active on social media.